The more we start to think that life is “fair”,
the more dissatisfied we will be…..
why?
because Life simply IS WHAT IT IS.
It is only our human mind that starts to make comparisons of “better and
worse”, ” Fair or not fair”, “like and dislike”. When we begin to mistake our
comparisons with actual reality, we fall into dissatisfaction and suffering.
Our woke governments have put us in the fair and not fair frame of mind,
then they feed us stuff that we don’t deserve, and everything goes for a
flying leap after that.
Most of the division in our modern world, is due to anger, jealousy and unreasonable expectations.
If we understand a few things, we can change our life.
1.) We don’t deserve anything, just because we were born. We obtain things because we work hard and smart.
2.) Our expectations should be in line with #1
3.) We will never be satisfied if we make comparisons between our own life and other peoples lives.
4.) Just because a person thinks “Life is what it is”, does not mean that we don’t work hard to make things better.
5.) 98% of our decisions are made for us when we are conceived and born. 2% is what we do with it.
6.) The greatest impact on our lives is not what family we are born into, not ethnicity, not IQ. The greatest impact on our lives (succeed or fail at life) is OUR ABILITY TO NAVIGATE WHATEVER LIFE THROWS AT US.
7.) Blaming and victim-hood are integral to Marxist thinking. They are diametrically opposed to #1 thru #6 of what I have said.
8.) If we take responsibility for what we think, say and do, we will live healthy emotional lives.
Reality is Dharma 