The Whole Enchilada - extras

Chapter 13 – Does Venting and Problem Resolution work?

I saw a video today of a bunch of angry people out in the woods beating the ground with sticks, screaming and freaking out, hoping to release their inner angst. Angry people, thinking that if they vent their anger it will be good for them. Well, it does give them some exercise, and it is… Continue reading Chapter 13 – Does Venting and Problem Resolution work?

The Whole Enchilada - extras · Uncategorized

Chapter 14 – How does Self-Consciousness affect us in out attitudes about the world?

This chapter deals with how seeking approval can change the way we feel about ourselves, and make us unduly aware of ourselves. "We are either internally directed, guided by our own inner guide and maintaining an inner locus of control", or we are "outer directed", looking for direction and guidance outside ourselves. This being outer… Continue reading Chapter 14 – How does Self-Consciousness affect us in out attitudes about the world?

Aging/getting older · Body/Mind - How we use our resources

As we get older paying attention is very important

It is true, when we are young, that we can "get away" with many less than good habits, as our bodies are very forgiving, and our habits aren't cast in stone yet. Actually, it seems that this is true, but these habits all come back on us in spades when we get older. Old physical… Continue reading As we get older paying attention is very important

Social Change in the 21st century · Social Order

Smoothing and polishing

One thing that tends to be forgotten by the current generations' psychologists, is the concept of "smoothing and polishing". Generally without some sort of rubbing against things other individuals, a personality stays rough. Rough can mean aggressive, arrogant, self-centred etc. Think of a horse that has not been taught to allow someone to ride them...… Continue reading Smoothing and polishing

Anxiety and Depression · Health

Anxiety, worry, the adrenal gland and Cortisol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZN-TOfBXO4I "We’ve all felt that surge of energy as we confront something threatening or startling. A barely avoided car accident. A call that your child has been hurt. The pressure to meet a deadline. As your body perceives stress, your adrenal glands make and release the hormone cortisol into your bloodstream. Often called the “stress… Continue reading Anxiety, worry, the adrenal gland and Cortisol